Comments on: New job http://www.letterneversent.com/new-job/1288/ Tell me when to go. Thu, 02 Feb 2012 11:46:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: r@d@r http://www.letterneversent.com/new-job/1288/comment-page-1/#comment-953 r@d@r Mon, 15 Mar 2004 21:34:45 +0000 http://www.letterneversent.com/index.php/archives/2004/03/11/new-job/#comment-953 LOL - people at work used to always think that i was angry too. not only that - any time i DID get angry, for some reason it frightened people. which was really aggravating, because i never yelled or anything - and i wanted to be heard by them, and be able to talk things out and negotiate, but instead no matter how hard i tried to control my tone of voice they would start backing up and their voices would shake and they would say things like "i-i-i r-r-really n-n-need you to c-c-c-calm d-d-d-down right now...okay?" as if i were about to hit them or something, which is about as nuts as can be. i was never able to find out exactly why me getting mad was so scary. it really caused me a lot of problems. now, however, people have the opposite prejudice, they think of me as "nice guy/doormat" which isn't true either. you can't win! LOL – people at work used to always think that i was angry too. not only that – any time i DID get angry, for some reason it frightened people. which was really aggravating, because i never yelled or anything – and i wanted to be heard by them, and be able to talk things out and negotiate, but instead no matter how hard i tried to control my tone of voice they would start backing up and their voices would shake and they would say things like “i-i-i r-r-really n-n-need you to c-c-c-calm d-d-d-down right now…okay?” as if i were about to hit them or something, which is about as nuts as can be. i was never able to find out exactly why me getting mad was so scary. it really caused me a lot of problems. now, however, people have the opposite prejudice, they think of me as “nice guy/doormat” which isn’t true either. you can’t win!

]]> By: chris http://www.letterneversent.com/new-job/1288/comment-page-1/#comment-952 chris Fri, 12 Mar 2004 21:56:10 +0000 http://www.letterneversent.com/index.php/archives/2004/03/11/new-job/#comment-952 I'm not looking like diet chris I’m not looking like diet chris

]]> By: susan http://www.letterneversent.com/new-job/1288/comment-page-1/#comment-951 susan Fri, 12 Mar 2004 14:28:42 +0000 http://www.letterneversent.com/index.php/archives/2004/03/11/new-job/#comment-951 I think you should be Diet Chris with Lime. I think you should be Diet Chris with Lime.

]]> By: chris http://www.letterneversent.com/new-job/1288/comment-page-1/#comment-950 chris Fri, 12 Mar 2004 00:01:49 +0000 http://www.letterneversent.com/index.php/archives/2004/03/11/new-job/#comment-950 Yea :( No more spying on me while invisible either. :( No more PigPen! :( Yea :(

No more spying on me while invisible either. :(

No more PigPen! :(

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